This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. Juno in Synastry, Signs, and Houses: Your Soulmate and Marriage I have to admit that I, with my usual 3/Sag and 3/Leo stelliums went after HIM because I was so sure he was my soul mate. For example, my first ex BF married to the woman, who was his course mate. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. afterall i suspected him of being phony and saw a fakeness in his eyes.it's not that i have not learned from the previous lesson. Either come correct or go away. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. But I didn't consider him anymore. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. No way, jose. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. I wonder what the key is to making these unusual relationships work.. http://www.nodeorama.com/viewtopic.php?id=2480, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6930. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. Infatuation can't run this deep. I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Hes a vampire and hes not worth it. I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second. Too late I realized that I loved him unconditionally. Venus in 12th house Synastry - Lindaland - linda-goodman.com These are actions of some type. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! Generally when venus is other persons 12th house, its effect depends on is Venus strong by sign? At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) But really what you also might be feeling is the Pluto Square Sun as well, that is another energy in itself that draws two people like Moth to flame:) the 12th house has roots in the past and most certainly is Karmic so perhaps that explains why it can go either way. Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. I feel I cannot even hide from him. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. Same here. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. it be TROUBLE at times, and very hard. venus in 10th house synastry - Astrology Anonymous So we became " friends" . It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. ------------------Air woman. I love everything about astrology. I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. Your relationship usually starts out as a friendship or as "good friends". And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus And also a lot of Saturn and Neptune going on. Feel free to elaborate in the comments. someone's venus in my 12th, feel unconditional/boundless love for him. If it's a night chart, Venus is more powerful and the strongest benefic in the chart. Problem is that I feel like I know his soul. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. In synastry, when someone's Venus is in your 2nd House, this person is a supportive influence for you. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. All we can do is hope for something good in the future! The same potential is there with composite charts and a lot of 12th house emphasis. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Lol. Venus in twelfth (synastry) - Lindaland - Linda Goodman I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. so i point it out, and im more aware. Questions like "Why do I feel so attracted to this person?" seems to come to mind when they are in each other's presence. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? Your Venus in Your Partner's Houses Truly Divine Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. hello, does anyone by any chance have any experience with venus being in the 12th house within synastry? His response have a huge impact upon me. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. Ya, I think we both feel a very strange draw to the other. GOD-awful!! I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? I would love to here anyone's feedback. Pretty much text book situation. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. Its like that alcoholics anonymous quote of acceptance of who you are thats why its not good for people to judge other people because they are not and never understand how to live in their shoes. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Your email address will not be published. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. On a very genera Don't forget to check out your monthly love horoscopes ! And also what are your thoughts on Venus in the 12th composite chart vs the synastry chart? Hi thank you for visiting! like a Gemini (no offense meant) they are both good and evil, but THEIR Evil Twin often does the acting out. He told you that he is not in love with you. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. I just recently met someone by accident online (a learning site.) Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. No WONDER I cant get it on for long with my Gemini partners . I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. Required fields are marked *. And it is an easy relationship. This is all the 12th house stuff, and why dreams can be healing and why this house can offer us healing. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. I don't mind though. ive seen it many times in others too. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. Venus in 12th House - astrology.community - Donuts Ive cut our contact channels. But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. Ouch!We do not see clearly, we imagine things differently than they are, we trust, we assume, we are not working with facts but what we want to believe and feelings. I then felt like the reason why it felt strange to me seemed to be that I was picking up his symptoms rather than experiencing illness myself (there was also "a fog" kind of feel to it too.) But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. Or it can bring us confusion, misunderstandings, enhance our fears, and sometimes scare our darn pants off like when were having a nightmare. Posts: 2196From: UranusRegistered: May 2011. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. He told me he loved me so many times and then took it back, and he told me there are things he needs to work through. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. Combust! A Venus in the 12th House man is a sweet, gentle, kind of person who likes to help both people and animals. I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Wow! If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). Either come correct or go away. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. Thats one thing I have been thinking about since reading other threads on the subject..also what house does your Venus fall in in his chart? W. hen someone's Venus falls in your 1st house, that person probably finds you physically attractive. He is the same, because even if there is nothing that ties us, in any way, we would still feel like inclined to keep communicating. 12th house synastry venus - bpbwmb.salesconsulter.de thanks for visiting! He turned out to be one dark character and a real piece of work, and it took me nearly 3 years with all SORTS of ups and downs, bumps and bruises, to get over him so that I could outs him from my spirit.